Kids are like flowers on earth. They flourish the lives of their parents; fulfill their dreams to be called “Mom” or “Dad”. These emotions create a relation of love, care and attachment between them. It is sometimes seen that the caring goes over a limit and parents forget to make their children learn responsibilities and etiquettes. When these (good habits, responsibilities, etiquettes) are tried to be imbibed in children, then often it gets late.
Nowadays these are the common complaints of parents that their kid never listens to them, is stubborn, and doesn’t take meals on time, has developed the habit of crying etc. Kids are exceptionally sharp learners and keen observers. They learn more from what they feel and watch. So it’s necessary for parents first to see their own behaviour with kids and what they present to them in terms of their own relationship and attitude (nagging, anger, swearing, lies should be avoided in front of children). Your child is mostly a reflection of you, your manners in home, your very own etiquettes, as he/she grows up he borrows things from society as well, but the foundation layer is always you. Parents should never argue with their kids or negotiate or give in to their unreasonable demands though someone may argue kids always have unreasonable demands…you will have to differentiate, also convey a message between right and wrong. Always encourage their skills and try to make them creative. Listen to their ideas with patience. Encourage reading and try to avoid television … I read somewhere that for a kid, it is better playing a video game (obviously try to channel him/her towards better ones like Strategy/Quiz/Racing.. not the intense ones, avoid violence and evil games) rather than watching television.
So, all the best guys..., be a perfect and sincere parent.
Happy Parenting.....
Nowadays these are the common complaints of parents that their kid never listens to them, is stubborn, and doesn’t take meals on time, has developed the habit of crying etc. Kids are exceptionally sharp learners and keen observers. They learn more from what they feel and watch. So it’s necessary for parents first to see their own behaviour with kids and what they present to them in terms of their own relationship and attitude (nagging, anger, swearing, lies should be avoided in front of children). Your child is mostly a reflection of you, your manners in home, your very own etiquettes, as he/she grows up he borrows things from society as well, but the foundation layer is always you. Parents should never argue with their kids or negotiate or give in to their unreasonable demands though someone may argue kids always have unreasonable demands…you will have to differentiate, also convey a message between right and wrong. Always encourage their skills and try to make them creative. Listen to their ideas with patience. Encourage reading and try to avoid television … I read somewhere that for a kid, it is better playing a video game (obviously try to channel him/her towards better ones like Strategy/Quiz/Racing.. not the intense ones, avoid violence and evil games) rather than watching television.
So, all the best guys..., be a perfect and sincere parent.
Happy Parenting.....
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